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The Good-Man-Is-Hard-To-Find Window of Opportunity

  • 6votes

For those who ask mournfully, “Where are all the good men?” there’s a simple answer: they’re taken. But even good men break up, get divorced, come back on the market, get out of prison…wait, strike that last one. 

Anyway, what I’m trying to say is that good men do become available, but not for long. There’s a brief window of opportunity before they’re snapped up. So act quickly for best offer!

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Are those online dating profiles for real? Our Dating Analyst reads between the lines and identifies the red flags. Learn how to decode, and submit one of your own for analysis.


Me and My Harley, Porsche, Horse, Kid, Mom...

  • 3votes

Do any of your dating profile photos feature you posing proudly with a motorcycle, car, truck, horse, dog, cat, parent, niece, nephew, sibling or child? How about the side of your ex's head? If so, you can be sure that you are losing potential dates.

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Intimacy Together

Ancient Chinese Advice on Better Sex

  • 5votes

You really have to hand it to the Chinese. Their insights into the man-woman dynamic go back thousands of years and still have relevance today. John Gray acts like he discovered the Mars-Venus concept but his groundwork was laid centuries ago. When it comes to improving both relationships and sexual relations, the Chinese have a lot to teach.

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Together Songs

  • 4votes

How even to limit a list of love songs? Even the unmusical have felt inspired to write a love song when in the throes of a great relationship. When the talented express themselves, they tap into the universal. These songs do that for me; which do it for you? 

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Signs He’s Cheating

  • 2votes

If things feel different around the house, if your man seems to be more detached, distracted or even more cheerful than usual, consider this: When men cheat, they change their habits. Even the most cautious betray telltale signs that they're captivated by someone other than you.

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Caring Too Much: Sound the Alert

  • 3votes

When dating, online or off, it's important to walk the line between detached and engaged. I don't know why I need to relearn this lesson over and over. I guess it's because my natural tendency is to be open, curious, responsive and nurturing. I now know those traits throw up a red flag to many men, who are hardwired to stay at arm's length.

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