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Dating Site Acronyms (DSAs)

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The language of love isn't what it used to be. The language of online dating? Well, let's just say it's not too wordy. For more general terms try our Acronyms for a Speeded Up World.

3D – Deny, Deny, Deny

A – Asian

AL – Animal Lover

ASL - Age, Sex, Location?

B&D: Bondage & Dominance or Bondage & Discipline

B or Bi – Bisexual

B – Black

BBW – Big Beautiful Woman

BDSM –Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission and Sadism & Masochism

Girl asleep with mouseBF – Boyfriend

BHM – Big Handsome Men

BS – Betrayed Spouse

BTDT – Been There, Done That

C – Christian or Couple (the ultimate in context-dependent)

CD – Cross Dresser

D – Divorced

D&S – Dominance & Submission

DADT – Don't Ask, Don't Tell

DDF – Drug and Disease Free

DF – Disease Free

EMA – Extramarital Affair

EMR – Extramarital Relationship

EPE – Erotic Power Exchange (BDSM term)

F – Female

FB – F*ck Buddy

FtMT – Female to Male Transgendered

FS: Financially Secure

FWB – Friends with Benefits

G – Gay

GSoH – Good Sense of Humor

GF – Girlfriend

H – Hispanic or Husband (context-dependent)

HP – Height/Weight Proportionate

I – Interracial

IPT – Is Partial To

ISO – In Search Of

J – Jewish

K – Kids

L – Lesbian

LD – Light Drinker

LDR – Long-Distance Relationship

LHT – LoveHowTo.com

LS – Legally Separated

LTR – Long-Term Relationship

LY – Love You

LYL – Love You Lots

LYLAB / S - Love You Like A Brother / Sister

M – Male (can also mean Married; check context)

MBA – Married But Available (and occasionally the actual post-graduate degree)

MtFT – Male to Female Transgendered

MILF – Mother I'd Love to F*ck

MM – Married Man

MSA – Married, Sleeping Apart

MW – Married Woman

NBM – Never Been Married

NC – No Contact

ND – No Drugs, Non Drinker, No Drinking, No Drugs (and occasionally North Dakota)

NK – No Kids

NM – Not Married or Never Married

NRE – New Relationship Energy

NS – Nonsmoker

NSA – No Strings Attached

OF – Old Fart

OM – Other Man

ONS – One Night Stand

OOM – Other Other Man

OOW – Other Other Woman

OW – Other Woman

P – Parent or Professional (context-dependent)

PDA – Public Display of Affection

R – Relationship

RACK – Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink (BDSM term)

S – Single, Straight or Spouse (very context-dependent)

S&M – Sadism & Masochism

SO – Significant Other

SoH – Sense of Humor

SSC – Safe, Sane & Consensual (BDSM term)

STBE or STBX - Soon-to-Be Ex

STD – Sexually Transmitted Disease

T – Transgendered

TOM – The Other Man

TOW – The Other Woman

VA – Virtual Affair

W – White, Widowed or Wife (very context-dependent)

WAA – Will Answer All

Wi – Widowed

WLTM – Would Like To Meet

WTR – Willing to Relocate

X – Ex (as in former spouse/lover) or Extreme (as in open to adult situations)

Y – You (Your)

YKIOK – Your Kink Is OK (BDSM term)

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