Intimacy
How to Give a Good Blow Job
Blow? Definitely not. Despite its misnomer, a good BJ is all about licking, sucking and rubbing, in customized proportions.
Some men feel there's no such thing as a bad blow job, just degrees of great ones. But the greater the better, both for giver and recipient. It's an enormous turn-on to hold a man's bliss in the palm of your hand...and between your lips.
Yes, the hand plays an important role in the blow job. Unless he's no more than a mouthful, you might need a little assistance in covering all his ground, and the hand (perhaps just the forefinger and thumb in a comfortably tight circle) adds to his sensations and gives the back of your throat a break. After all, if the hand didn't feel good, why would he bother masturbating? Give a little squeeze at the base to simulate a Kegel. Oh, and while you're thinking of it, do 10 Kegels. (Every time you think of it, do 10 more. But that's in preparation for a different type of act.)
As important as the hand is the tongue. While you have a mouthful, try a languid licking up and down the shaft. Edge up to the tip and flick around, either from inside or outside of your mouth. Don't forget the balls ‐ they love a licking sensation. Then you're positioned to lick all the way back up to the tip, envelop it and go down tightly. And up. And down. Rinse and repeat. Take your cues from him: If he likes something, do more of it.
Try it from different directions: Lying down you can do it from above, below, side or full frontal. A standing blow job (and by that I don't mean one every Friday night at 10:00pm) takes a little extra stamina because it involves bending and/or squatting, so get those quads in shape! Then of course there's kneeling, which has plenty of fans: good angle, plus a touch of the submissive.
A steady motion is key. Inexperience and lack of confidence can lead to trying lots of different moves, one right after the other. Better to pick one stroke and stick with it for a while. Increase speed and intensity gradually. If you're not getting much response, then you can try something else. You could even ask your guy, "How about a different angle?" and let him suggest something. (Just don't talk with your mouth full.)
All good things must come to an end, and that includes blow jobs. Swallowing is for many the ultimate enjoyment, although of course there are other options, some messier than others. (Safe sex practices are also a consideration.) To increase your pleasure in the swallowing option, put your guy on a pineapple diet. Seriously, it works.
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